Well, we did it guys! We lived another year, we loved 2017, we hated 2017 but either way, we lived through it and we are better because of it. I loved being able to spend time with my family (minus 1) this year in California. Through long lines at Disneyland, to getting stung by stingrays while surfing, we laughed and were together for a much needed vacation. I loved being able to put into perspective what really matters for the new year. My family is everything to me and to end ’17 and start ’18 with them is something I plan to do for the rest of my life. I hope that this year you have taken the time to sit down and think about what you want, how to get it and how you’re going to eliminate the distractions so that its nothing but a clear path to your goals.
This year as a resolution, I was tired of seeing everyone setting the same goals: new body, new me, new career, new this and that. I wanted something to actually benefit others and feel like I really was becoming better. My family and I were waiting in line for our favorite restaurant to open, I was holding my nieces and giggling about how we just met Kylo Ren. As I turned around I noticed a homeless man, contorted on the ground hiding under dirty clothes with nothing but a plastic bag next to him. I froze and immediately grabbed the little cash that I had, I bent down and softly woke him up. He looked up at me, teeth missing, beard long and gray with a dirty face. I held out the money, which he grabbed with one hand. I was getting up immediately but he grabbed my hands in both of his and held them as he spoke to me in a language I did not understand. Immediately the tears hit and I was making a scene in front of the ever growing line. I asserted him with a nod, he let go and put his head back down. I was still a mess and began to give my family a hug thanking them for being there and thanking the Lord that I was so blessed. I realized at that moment that we are so entirely caught up in thinking of ourselves ALL THE DAMN TIME. We are no better than each other, in fact we are equal and we are powerful. My resolution was to volunteer, to donate, to some how everyday make someone better. I want to help those who are not as fortunate, who need an extra boost in helping themselves. In that moment I reached down and as the man looked up at me, I immediately thought of the Savior and his love. He hung out with everyone. Lawyers, criminals, prophets, kings, the homeless. Never once did He think he was better. In that moment, I knew thats what He wanted me to do this year and just as importantly it’s what I want to do.
I hope so far the new year has been good, of course I’ve already broken some of my less important resolutions and it’s totally okay. Just gives me more time to try. This year is going to be a fun one and I’m excited to share the journey. Here are some family photos taken on Newport Beach in 40 degree fog. Happy New Year!
